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Especially for Dads
Especially for Moms
Bible Studies


Especially for Dads:

Abortion Affects Fathers too
     How a man's sense of manhood is threatened by this experience
Apache Tears
    From an Indian legend, the story of tears turned into beauty
Are Your Children Getting Quality Education?
    Ten qualities of a well-educated person
A Safe Place to Express Strong Feelings
   Our children need help to express their strong feelings about 911 and other scary events
Attachment, Key to Positive Self-Expression
   Attachment disorders make it difficult for children to express their strong feelings in acceptible ways.
Authoritative vs. Authoritarian
   Authoritative parents build healthy children. Authoritarian parents don't.
Balancing Tenderness and Firmness
   Too much tenderness or too much firmness produce an angry child
Benefits of Reading to Your Children
     Nothing develops a child's mind like reading.
Blending the Old and the New
     A First Nation finds its own blend of traditional and modern recreation
Born in a Barn, A Reflection on Christmas Values
     Two boys from the "res" imagine what they could do for Christmas if they had a big house
Breaking the Taboo of Crying
     It can be a "man thing" to cry, and expressing painful emotions can be good for the family
Breaking the Will, Strengthening the Spirit
    Without this training, a child can become strong-willed and weak-spirited.
Build a Better Brain
     Good fathering makes a big difference in the mental development of children.
Bullying: It's Not Just a Stage of Childhood  It can damage a child for life.
Changing an Older Child's Behaviour
     Creative "active parenting" ideas
Communicating Faith to Teenage Children
     A parent's good relationship with a teenager will help to draw him back to what he was taught as a child.

Conquering Meanness With Kindness
How one small first-grader won over the bullies in his school.
Create a Family Internet Agreement
Most parents do not know what their children are seeing on the world wide web. Establish guidelines for your protection.
The Creator's Plan for Marriage
     Strong marriages make stong communities. Here's God's idea of marriage
Custom Adoption     
Time for a new look at a traditional custom, counsellor says
Depression: When Should Parents Seek Help?
Different Patterns, Similar Aims
     News of a workshop in which fathers discover their fathering styles.
Epitaph for a Great Father
     A grateful son remembers the godly qualities of his father
Developing Trust in Young Children
     The first year of life is the trust-building stage.
Explanation is Obvious for Murdered Infants
     As long as abortion remains legal, we should not be surprised at the rise in family violence
Families Caught Between Culture and Kingdom
     Truth is to be handed from generation to generation, like a baton in a relay race.
The Family, A Perpetual Relay of Truth
     Truth is to be handed from generation to generation, like a baton in a relay race.
Family Breakdown Feeds Growth of Gangs
     Gangs offer a sense of group identity, or "family.
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Father's Anger Crushes Children
     What a father's anger does to children; how the child can be restored in God the father
Foundations for Family Life  It's more than "parenting." Family life also needs good spiritual and emotional foundations.
Future Generations Threatened by Alcohol  A generation of northern children are being disabled by parents' drinking. God Provides a Wife for Arthur
     Arthur is happy today because he sought to follow God's plan for marriage.
Good News About Runaway Children
    What parents can do to win back a prodigal child.
Grandparenting: Not the Same as Parenting
    When parents and grandparents work together, there are significant benefits for both.
Growing Plants for Healthier Families and Communities
    No question about it: Gardening contributes to all-around health.
Habits of Highly Effective Parents
   Jesus' Sermon on the Mount gives a model for effective parenting
Halloween is Not Just Harmless Fun
     Halloween is getting increasingly ugly and violent, says former witch
.Helping Young Children Tell the Truth
     Children reason differently than adults. Understanding why they lie helps build a foundation for teaching truth.
Helping Your Child Become Fully Bilingual Language loss may be one cause of social breakdown and chaos in communities. Helping Your Child Feel Important
One of the best things parents can do for children is help them to realize their personal worth
Houses of Cards: Weak Foundations to Avoid  It's risky to build family foundations based on the poplular beliefs of modern society.
How your Parenting Style Affects Your Children
    Tell us your parenting style, and we can predict some things about your children.
How to Raise a Sex Offender
     Sex offenders are made, not born
I DON'T Have an Anger Problem!
     Fifteen indications of a possible anger problem, with biblical examples
If You Think Halloween is Scary
     Recent events in Canadian politics and the justice system that should scare every parent

Infant Massage, Something Natural
     A simple method for care-givers to bring relief and relaxation to yound children.
Internet Infidelity
   In cyberspace, a new threat to marriages looms.
Jesus and Adopted Children
     Jesus was adopted by Joseph, his mother's husband. He understands what adopted children face.
Life Cycle of a Father
     Six stages of fatherhood, a framework for planning your own fathering strategies.
Looking for Love in the Wrong Places
     Children who have has wholesome involvement with a father will have a better relationship in marriage.
.Men Need to Talk to Men
     Men need to learn from other men how to be fathers.
Mistakes Grandparents Make
     Start planning early to avoid these mistakes and be the kind of grandparent your grandchildren need.
More Contact for Children
     Wholesome contact activities that help bond parents and children.
Musical Games
An old family favourite, with some new twists
Myths About Bilingualism
Bilingual children have many advantages.
No Greenhouse? No Problem! Grow Potatoes     A healthy vegetable that will grow almost anywhere.
Place of the Father in the Home, The
     There is a crisis taking place in our families, a crisis of the father not taking his place
Price of a Bride, The
What would you do to win the world's most beautiful woman?
Old Man From Darby, The
A true story of forgiveness
Real Test: Forgiving One's Own People
Two true stories of forgiveness
Raising boys: not the same as raising girls
    Boys will be boys. Whether or not they grow up to be decent men is up to us.
Recognizing Fetal Alcohol Syndrome
Parents can learn to recognize some of the symptoms
Restoring an Ex-Offending Husband
     Why it is so hard for some wives to support their husband when he gets his life straightened out after a prison term.
.The Right Shape for Catching Fish
Until a child can "shape up" for himself, he needs parental authority.
Romance Your Wife
Give your children a life-changing gift this Christmas
"Schooling is Parents' Job," says Dad
     A visit with a First Nations couple who are schooling their children at home
Scapegoats and Black Sheep
     Prodigal children are formed, not born
Seven Simple Listening Skills
Sex Sins Are Destroying My People
     There's a killer on the loose in Native Canada.
Sexual Abuse Victim Finds Freedom in Forgiving His Offender
     
A Son's Tribute to a Wonderful Dad
     This dad overcame major obstacles to become a "living legend" to his children.
Sonnet for a Two-Year-Old
     "Too soon the years will pass, the world grow tame..."
To Spank or Not to Spank
     The method used for child discipline is not as important as the relationship between parent and child.
Students Bring Bark Canoe Back from Near Extinction
     Northwestern Ontario high school students revive the ancient art of canoe building
Talking to your Children About Racism
All of us have been affected by racist myths. Humility is in order.
Taming the "Terrible Two's"
     This stressful time for parents can also be "stretching" for both parents and children.
Teen Depression is on the Rise
     But it is also better understood than ever before, and help is available.
The Three Strands of Parenting
A rope of three strands is not quickly broken.
o.The unique challenge of raising boys
    Inequities and other wounds that boys experience growing up in developed societies.
What Do Women Want?
     From Proverbs 31, a list of feminine desires that are in the heart of every woman.
Why Should I Trust God?
     On Father's Day, a son recalls an adventure with his dad that taught him about trust.

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Addicted to E-mail? Not me!"
    E-mail helps me keep in touch, but it can be a time-waster if I don't control it
A Mother Remembers Christmas in the North
     Sometimes we didn't have much except love for each other.
A Look at Two Biblical Mothers
    Would you rather be like Naomi or Herodias?
A Mother's Battle With Anger
     "Ashamed of all the times my anger has erupted against those I love."
Aging Gracefully
     External beauty fades. Inner beauty lives on.
Being a Good Example to Children
     Parental self-discipline is the first step to effective child discipline

Bringing a Child into a Hostile World
There is no perfect time in history to have children. People of faith can successfully raise children any time.
Children of an Unloved Mother
    Leah's children grew up violent and immoral, but God in His mercy restored them.
Choosing to Live With Purpose
     A life without purpose is like a popcorn doll.
Connie's Story: Forgiveness and Healing from Abortion
     For 18 years her life was miserable until she found forgiveness at the feet of Jesus
Defining Who I Am
Blooming where you have been planted as a unique woman
Fathers Cast a Long Shadow
Women are shaped by their relationship with their fathers
Five Stages of Pregnancy
     A mother's tongue-in-cheek look at her difficult pregnancy
Happy in an Unhappy Marriage
   I can learn to wait for perfect happiness until I get to heaven
Honouring our Daughters
     Each daughter is unique and special. It takes a lifetime to get to know her.
Hope Fills in the Missing Pieces
    Some painful things in life may never change before I die, but hope sustains me. 
I See, I Weep
    Does Jesus care when bad things happen to people? Yes!

If I Were Advertising for a Husband
   How would I describe myself
Keepers of the Home
     How moms can experience the dignity and respect implicit in the ancient term "keeper."

Living with Purpose
   A 100-year-old lady inspires Ilva to examine her life.
Making Each Child Feel Special
     "Each of us thought that we were Dad's favourite child."
Man of Rage/A Changed Man
     A wife marvels at the change God has made in her husband.
Making Rainbows Wherever I Go
     A picture of the beauty that can shine through me.
Marriage is...
    A wife's warmly humorous reflections on twenty-five years of marriage.
Mothers and Daughters
     Who is writing the script for your daughter to show her how to act as a woman?
Memories of my Grandfather
     "...a small, energetic man with a white beard and twinkly eyes. He could cry as hard as he could laugh..."
Memories of Gardening With My Parents
This is how my parents brought me "back to the land.
Modesty in Spirit and Action
     Modesty begins in the heart.
Music that Helps me Live
Music is a language of the soul. Singing helps me in many ways.
The Power of Words
Name-calling can hurt children.
My Dining Room, A Place of Beauty
The beauty is in the life, not the furniture.
Power of Life or Death in the Tongue
Are you speaking words of life or words of death?
Reflections on Mother's Passing
I miss Mom, but I wouldn't want her back for a minute.
Seeking God's Blessing for my Husband
    God loves him and desires the best for him. Who can pray for him like I can?
Shame: It Has to Do With the Eyes
     Shame comes from a wounded heart and in turn wounds others through the eyes.
Showing Love to My Husband
    Sure, I can tell him. How can I show him?
Spending Time with God
     Mothers of all ages are busy people. Time for God requires planning and commitment.
Staying Faithful to Wedding Vows
     How could a woman be faithful for forty years to a husband that had abandoned her?
Things I've Learned in 31 Years of Marriage
     A humorous look at the lessons of life.
Tomorrow You're Getting Married
     A mother's letter to her daughter on the eve of her wedding.
Volcanic Anger
What is your "blowing point?
Volcanic Anger #2
Every volcano has its beginning way down deep.
What Does it Take to Make a House a Home? Any house can be a home if love is there.
What is a Successful Mother?
     You cannot determine how your children will turn out, but you can change your ways of relating to them

When You Thought I Wasn't Looking
The way a mother lives is more important than what she says
Women Working Together Against Racism
I can't do much about the world, but together we can comat racism in our neighbourhoods.
You Cannot Hide a Bad Attitude


Bible Studies:
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A Better Way to Treat Women
    Jesus and the apostles set very high standards for men in their treatment of women.
Adultery in the Bible
     People in Bible times were tempted with adultery, even without the Internet.
A Notable Wife 2 Kings 4:8-37
     What are the qualities that made this woman so remarkable?
An Unbroken Will 1 Kings 1-2
How a young prince with a strong will and a weak spirit came to ruin.
Be a Man of God
     What are the qualities that God wants to build into every man?
Bible People Who Got Depressed
     Even godly people suffer from depression, sometimes.

The Bible Speaks about Human Races
Answers to many questions about the human race can be found in the Bible.
Bringing in a New Way, Matthew 2 and Luke 2
     A Christmas quiz: test your knowledge of events surrounding the birth of Christ.
Broken Families in a Broken World, Various scriptures
 None of the families of these biblical heroes of faith was perfect.
Building Conviction for Truth (various scriptures)
     Suggestions for memorizing scriptures that speak about truth
Children of Conflict, Genesis 29-25
     A look at the negative character qualities in the lives of children whose parents didn't get along well

Communication Blocks (various scriptures)
   Nine behaviours that effectively block communication
Cougars, Sharks and Hyenas (Psalm 59). Good people of long ago sometimes got bullied, too. Dads in the Bible (various scriptures)
     These ten dads, although imperfect, had character qualities that made them great.

Effective Involvement
   The Nehemiah model of effective parental involvement with children
Expressing Anger in Godly Ways
   Anger is a normal part of grieving. Expressing it in the right way helps healing
Expressions of Love
   The Song of Solomon gives married couples some great ideas for expressing love.
Father of the Prodigal
     The life events that brought this prodigal back to his father are still effective in the lives of prodigals today.
Four Fathering Styles
     How dads in the bible displayed the styles described in How Your Parenting Style Affects your Children
Forgiveness Myths
Light from scripture on our false pictures of forgiveness
Giving Meaningful Time and Attention     The Bible suggests ways to make time with two-year-olds meaningful.
Grandparents in the Bible
     Grandparents in the Bible had a powerful influence on their grandchildren, sometimes good, sometimes not.
Harmless Customs? 2 Kings 21:2-9 and other scriptures
     The Israelites borrowed customs from the nations around them and suffered for it.

Healing a Marriage
     A wounded marriage can be restored with God's help.
Healthy Plant Foods of Bible Days
The foods that kept ancient peoples healthy are still good for us today.
I Will Trust and Not Be Afraid
     Where did King David learn about trust?
It's Marriage, Not Mating
     Animals mate. Some even mate for life. God's plan for humans is on a higher order.
It Started With a Look
     Achan lost everything he had because he did not control his eyes and his desires.
Jesus Teaches Three-Stranded Parenting The Sermon on the Mount is a helpful guide for parents.
Jesus Understands Adopted Children
He experienced many of the same issues Himself
Knees and other Nurturing Touch
     Tender, loving touch often takes place on a parent's knees.
Life skills for boys
    Wisdom from the Proverbs for young men.
Losing/Winning a Child's Heart, 2 Samuel 13-18
     From the stories of David and Absolom, lesson in relating to children.

Maintaining Family Foundations The Bible tells how to build strong family foundations.
The Missing Emotional Connection
Rehoboam's father Solomon was known as a wise king. Why did Rehoboam not inherit this wisdom?
Music That Pleases God
God tells us in the Bible what kind of music sounds good to Him.
Parents of the Adolescent,Luke 2:39-52
     A look at a scene in the life of twelve-year-old Jesus and his parents
Profile of a Gang Member, Judges 11:1-12:7
    God called Jephthah, an outlaw leader, to become the leader of His people.
Rising Above an Imperfect Past (various scriptures)
     We don't have to pass on to the next generation the mistakes our parents made with us.
Songs about Fathers, Psalms 127, 128
     The psalmist sings about five types of effective fathers.
.Strengthen Your Family Through Language Building
    Most children who use language well learned it from their parents.
Strong Men Who Weep
    Some of the greatest men in the Bible knew how to express their emotions through weeping
Teach Your Children Well (various scriptures)
     Education as described in the Bible includes things the public system is losing.
The Ancient Boundaries, Leviticus 18 and other scriptures
     The Bible set clear boundaries for sexual conduct. When these boundaries are violated, people get hurt and abused.
The (Christmas) Gift of Contentment, 1 Timothy 6:6-10, 17-19
     The Christmas industry profits from people's discontment. What would happen if families made an effort to promote contentment at Christmas time?

Wisdom for Fathers
     Solomon in Proverbs comments on the connection between fathering and mental development.
When All the Bottles Point to You      Alcohol has ways of pushing people to excess. Consider what wise men have said about drinking.
Why Do Women Have Abortions?
     Biblical responses to the reasons most often given for abortion
Your Authority as a Parent
What authority does the Bible assign to you as a parent?

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